Safe & Sound

In the drama On 36 hours call, 鱼子 said,

"When human go faced sadness and death, they often questioned God, why am I the one? Why of all people, I am the one who have to suffer this? Why am I so unlucky? Human, in nature, will keep on ask why. Because they are afraid. They are afraid of pain and death. But actually it's human who forgot that, pain and death will always be a part of our life. We know from the day we born, we will die one day. So, we shouldn't be afraid. We should go through everyday in the best way we can."

Do you understand this?

All of us will have a fear in our heart, in our mind. No matter how strong you are. You will be fear of something. We try hard to protect ourselves from being hurt. We will try hard to prevent ourselves from feeling pain. It's nature. Not every one can make their day pass through with smile. Be thankful that you still have a chance to make a difference in your life. Be thankful that you are not dying tmr, you can still make a better tmr. There are so many things that can make us upset. But if we dont value our days, you will never know when God took it away. It might be just the next hour, an accident, you will be gone.

Think of the last thing you wish to do before you die. Do you wish to cry before you die? Do you wish to leave this world with tears? No one will. Yes, no one will. So, you shouldn't even cry today so it won't be the last thing you ever regret when you're gone.

Try to find the inner peace in your mind.

This song give me a little peace when I start to off track.

I remember tears streaming down your face

When I said, I'll never let you go

When all those shadows almost killed your light

I remember you said, Don't leave me here alone

But all that's dead and gone and passed tonight

Just close your eyes

The sun is going down

You'll be alright

No one can hurt you now

Come morning light

You and I'll be safe and sound

Don't you dare look out your window darling

Everything's on fire

The war outside our door keeps raging on

Hold onto this lullaby

Even when the music's gone

Just close your eyes

The sun is going down

You'll be alright

No one can hurt you now

Come morning light

You and I'll be safe and sound

Just close your eyes

You'll be alright

Come morning light,

You and I'll be safe and sound...

【那些年，我們一起追的女孩】

This movie makes me cry!

The first time I heard about this movie was during end of December. Ppl told me that the ending wasn't a nice one. So, I didn't even thought of watching it at all. I'm scare that I'm too involved with the emotion. Like I watch Titanic, I always tear a little when comes to the ending. I will have a natural flash back of what the lovers did and eventually, teared.

And then I saw this video clip when I was in karaoke with my course mates after my final exam ends, during January. At first, I was happily singing this song as this is a really nice song. It brings back memories even with the title itself "Those day". Then, as I watched the video clip, I astonished. Too indulged with the video clip, I just sat there and watch the whole mv without singing anymore. A thought of myself, "Omgggg, this will be a very nice, SAD story". I can see how lovely there are yet knowing it will be a sad ending. It makes me feel like wanting to watch but scare being too emotional.

So finally, after keeping the movie for a month. I dig up the courage and watch this. The last ten minutes of the movie, I just can't stop myself, I cried. As in, I really cry and not even just tearing. The director make a flash back of them. And if you had watch this, you will know how much the guy love the girl by his action in the end of this story. It was an unexpected action but he just did it to show how much he wanted to do that.

Worst is the movie was based on a true story. Though they may add some additional details in it but it still make this movie so heartfelt.

This movie delivers a lesson. PLEASE CONFESS YOUR LOVE!

Think of a person

To those who read this:

1st: Think of a person in your life who knows a lot about you, a person whom you share most your things with. About your secret, about your thoughts and all your little behavior. A person who knows your habit and little details.

Now, thanks this person for all the patient and care he/ she would give for understanding you and hearing all your confession at most of the time. Thanks this person for being your life support and makes your days better by not bottling yourselves up.

2nd: Think of a person in your living life whom you would want to marry him/her in the next life. You may not work out with this person this life, but you still hope there is a chance in next life. Or you are happily with this person this life and you would want to continue till next life.

Cherish this person no matter what happen for this person has craved an eternal mark in your life. Appreciate this person though he/ she might not belong to you. Cherish and appreciate as you can't force yourself to let go in any way.

♥

The lost ring

I rmber this girl I'd met. She was angry with the person she love. They were arguing about something. Out of anger, she threw away a ring, a couple ring to the field next to them. After long discussion and tears, they were fine back. Then, the guy left and went to take something. After the guy left, the girl immediately rush to the field, looking for something. Yes, looking for the ring. She look for very long, at all possible place where the ring could land. Few minutes later, the guy came back, looking at her finding for their ring. A little smile in his face. They look together for that ring.

Look for long enough, they couldn't find it. Then, they left.

It was almost impossible for the girl to unable to find that ring. The field was just a metre a way from her, when she threw, there was no one pass by at all. The ring must be somewhere just a metre away from her. How far could she throw? It was just a very small field. The ring is silver, it should shine out of the Sun. But she couldn't find it even in such confine place.

She must have thought she could find back when she threw. But she couldn't in the end.

This teaches us never assume you can find back the thing you gave up. You thought you had hold on the situation, taking everything under control, but this is not the case as in the end, faith mislead us. Not everything can be predict. Learn to appreciate.

Imagine

Imagine that there are this two persons in your life.

A perfect person with complete package that you couldn't wish for more. He's good looking, he sends you flower when he's out station, he would cook for you and give you surprises. Call you to make you feel secure and perfect gentlemen. You feel warm and protected with this person. Everything that a girl would dream for. A prince on a white horse in our fairy tales.

And,

An ordinary person with plain looks and nothing much. But whenever you see this person, you feels some chemistry going on. You don't know what happen but there's always sparks and fireworks. The sparks will somehow be there no matter how long you all didn't see each other. Ppl called it butterflies in the stomach. But, this person do not fight for you to be with him though he loves you.

Now, who would you choose?

The first person is irresistible, the second is enchanting.

I gave a deep thought of this myself. And my answer would be, if you want a perfect marriage, you choose the first person. A person who can protect you for the rest of your life though he might not be the one you love the most. It's sad to realize sometimes marriage and love dont comes along. Often, I heard ppl telling me that the person you married will never be the person you love the most. When I was younger, I dont understand. But I think I start to understand this now. Two person who love each other too much expect too much toleration from each other. They expect because they know the person they love would do this for them. They expect, it's pretty normal. How can we live without expecting? It's just like how can you live without expecting the Sun will rise tmr. It's nature. And because of this nature, they can't make it. Ended up, we married a person who we may not love the most, but love him as a husband. Adore him as a life partner. Appreciate him for his pampered and protection. Love in a way not how we used to fell in our first love. So madly, so vulnerable. Never again, because we don't expect that much from this husband as we know some place in our heart, maybe just a tiny place, we had leave it for another person, for the rest of our life.

But if you wanted love, choose the second person. You risk. You risk for a duration, a years, two years, 5 years or 10 years till the sparks no longer exist anymore. You're betting on when this sparks will comes to an end. But of course, the sparks, the chemistry is priceless. There could be a million persons out there whom can appear as a prince charming but it would not be easy to meet a person who you both share the same chemistry. It's just like you can be any Lamborghini and feel happy seating in it. But it's hard to find a carriage which makes you feel like Cinderella. An ordinary person who can makes you feel in a way you never felt before then this person is actually not that ordinary anymore. It doesn't matter whether this person is how imperfect but because of the feeling they gave you, you could never forgot, and this feeling is just right to make this person perfect enough to stay in your heart. It's true that you can forgot how a person look, you can forgot where and when, you can forgot what are you doing at that moment but the feeling they gave you, you can never erase it. This second person is the person that would stay in a tiny space of your heart forever if you be with the first person.

Bits of Psychology

Something I run through and thought it will be interesting.

Well, it's a lesson in Psychology. It's common that ppl love psychology because we always wanted to know how other ppl think and what their body language means. It's a tough one as human being are all different and we can't really tell though we might be a real expert.

So, here's something I can relate it with.

When a person laughs too much even on stupid things,

be sure that person is sad deep inside.

When a person sleeps alot,

be sure that person is lonely.

When a person talks less, and if he/she talks,

he talks fast then it means that person keeps secrets.

When someone can't cry,

then that person is weak.

When someone eats in abnormal way,

then that person is in tension.

When someone cry on little things,

then it means he/she is innocent and soft hearted.

When someone gets angry on silly or small things,

it means he/she is in love.

Sweet desserts

I'd been indulging myself with lots of desserts/sweets/ snacks recently. I don't know what came into me but I'm CRAVING for sweet stuff. I don't normally like sweet things but the taste bud has new interest now. Oh myy, this is bad since sweet always makes ppl fat.

So, this is what I've been treating myself for the week.

♥ #1: Chocolate smoothies from Upperstar ♥

One fine day, after my three hours of tiring lab, course mates were so exhausted and wanting to treat ourselves some delicacies. And all I can think of is THIS! It makes my day!

After chocolate smoothies, we want more happiness. We head to this!

♥ #2: Small pearl milky tea from YOYO! ♥

Yoyo always stand a very special place in my heart. Every semester, I never failed to not drink this! Just when the days get rough, a cup of yoyo will make the days better. Or when the days are so dull, so frustrated with assignments and upcoming exams, Yoyo will be the champion to brighten the day.

And the daily snacks I'm having ...

♥ #3: Butter cookies from Kjeldsen ♥

This is a new love. Usually I don't munched cookies. Told you, I don't favoured sweet stuff. I dont even craved for cookies or biscuits. I always think that cookies are so dried. Only get excited when the cookies look super cute or the cookies was made by me. But now, I'm loving this butter cookies!

And finally, I will have this at least once in every semester.

♥ #4: Cupcakes from Boutique Cupcakes! ♥

I love their cupcakes alot simply because they look lovely! And of course, tasting good too!

Closer look of the vanilla with banana flavour cupcakes! Yumss!

♥ #5: Fruit tart from Boutique Cupcakes ♥

Something new in Boutique Cupcakes, it looks too irresistible to say no. I bought it together with the cupcakes and this taste even better than the cupcakes! I love peach I love strawberries and the combination with its tart, ohhhhh lovely day for me! I'm loyal fan to Boutique Cupcakes now ~

Little reasons to smile #6: DESSERTS! =)